The stranger within

Every day, something happens that I want to tell you about.... And yet every day it all seems so insignificant.... I sometimes wonder.... Do you remember me, the way I remember you? Do you think of me when I think of you? Is love the question or Is love the answer? But mom,I should tell you now.... With all questions asked That are never answered I just don't know what to do with "I love you"

For someone that has gone thru my fair share of loss and grief, one thing that I believe to be true is that grief is grief and loss is loss. The loss of my cat is no less an emotion than that of your breakup. A loss of a brother is no less than that of a parent or a child. Loss is loss. Let's stop trying to put an amount on pain, it's not a competition! Understand that you can't understand the pain the other person is going through because; we all experience pain and deal with it, in our own way.