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Keep rising sisters!

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Thanks to Grey's Anatomy and Dr. Dixon way back in 2008, I didn't have to Google Asperger's Syndrome when Greta Thunberg came around.  What has surprised me this week though, after her powerful speech at the UN, are the responses from "adult males" on social media. Their fragile little egos using words like "mentally ill, stupid girl"...and my first thought was "I wonder if he drives a Ferrari to compensate for his really tiny balls"  If you look at the recent protests and marches, the majority people standing out there are females. The female energy is rising and the uneducated male finds it threatening. But that won't silence us all. We will rise. We will continue to raise our voices. We will make our arguments not only loud, but very smart as well. The antiquated mindsets have got to go. Females are by nature more nurturing than males and in this time of turmoil, on this beautiful planet we currently call home, we the female energy

Do you feel it too?

The rise of the feminine energy is all around us. More and more people are becoming conscious of their surrounding and opening up to a more spiritual way of being. The conversations grow louder and louder and more and more are joining the party! I call it a party, coz we're all woke over here and we're all loving our lives on the daily. You see, the main thing about spirituality is taking responsibility. You take responsibility for your life....you KNOW your thoughts create things...you KNOW that you are in charge of your own happiness ...and you know a bad moment , doesn't equal a bad life . You wake up every morning grateful for the things you have right now, in this moment. Yes, your goal may be to one day speak at a conference in front of a 10,000 people but it didn't happen today. So what are you going to do? Are you going to stay home and mope all day because today was not the day or are you going to take today and prepare for that day? Are you going out the

What does your name mean? Your name is no accident

Growing up, I used to make fun of my own name. I mean having sisters with lavish names like Renalde, Kenoline, Jacqueline...I always used say my parents got real lazy when it came to me (coz I'm the baby) and stuck me with the shortest name possible: Gabby...five letters, no more and it's not my nickname but my full first name. Or say things like "It's an English word that means talk a lot"  🤦‍♀️ 🤦‍♀️ Somewhere during the process of growing up (I'm still doing that btw), I realized that although my name is an English word that means "talk a lot", I do have a thing about talking. I can't stand lies or people that lie. I'd rather tell you the ugly truth than try to placate you and make you feel better with a lie. I sometimes also say things that sounds wise beyond my years and for some reason, people come to me for advise (yeah, not so sure about that one but ok) and I've been told that I "speak things into existence" (tellin

Morning Affirmation - 10 April 2018

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I choose to be grateful for this day, for this life I choose to be kind, to myself and others I choose to be mindful of my thoughts & actions I choose to be present, in this moment, this minute, this hour, this day I choose to be positive in the face of negativity I choose to seek for the good in others I choose to release the past and embrace the future I choose the people I share my energy with I CHOOSE....because my self care & happiness are too important to leave in the hands of others Nama'slay this day!   🙏🏽   #GratiTuesday

Musings...

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I read a quote on some positive affirmation page last night that said "They want you to be good but they don't want you to be better than them" And I thought, who are they and why should I care? Your vibe attracts your tribe and if you're constantly in competition with other people around you, they'll be in competition with you. There's a difference between being in competition with the people around you and people motivating you to be & do better. The only person we should be in competition with, is the version of ourselves we were yesterday. So take a breath, there's enough light out there for everyone to shine! And if you can't find the light, BE the DAMN light! Namaste woke folk!  👊

Dear Mom,

Every day, something happens that I want to tell you about.... And yet every day it all seems so insignificant.... I sometimes wonder.... Do you remember me, the way I remember you? Do you think of me when I think of you? Is love the question or Is love the answer? But mom,I should tell you now.... With all questions asked That are never answered I just don't know what to do with "I love you"

The similarity and yet uniqueness of grief & loss

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For someone that has gone thru my fair share of loss and grief, one thing that I believe to be true is that grief is grief and loss is loss. The loss of my cat is no less an emotion than that of your breakup. A loss of a brother is no less than that of a parent or a child. Loss is loss. Let's stop trying to put an amount on pain, it's not a competition! Understand that you can't understand the pain the other person is going through because; we all experience pain and deal with it, in our own way.