When you stop to love....you stop to live

It's only in the moment when you realize that you've stopped loving, that you realize, you've also stopped living. Most people don't see these 2 as things that go hand in hand but without one, the other does not exist.

When all you do is watch as others love around you; or decide not to love anyone else to avoid the pain and loss again; or tell yourself that no one is worthy of your love, then it's time to ask yourself..."why is my life so empty and filled with only clutter and fluff?" Because that is all you will find, when love is taken out of the equation...and empty life with no real substance.

Your guitar won't keep you warm and your money won't wipe your tears. The fridge will not produce you cooked meals and the TV won't be talking back. The stranger in your bed wouldn't know how to love you...because they don't know the real you...

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