Loss and grief....

I've learnt that u should never ask people, in these situations, if there's anything u can do, because u can't. I learnt that no matter how much people say they are sorry, it is not their fault. I also learnt that saying "i know how u feel" is a lie, because all of us experience grief in a different way.

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